Tag: 2021

An Introduction to My Impossible List

I took the picture above in 2015 after a family vacation to Europe, featuring trips to Slovenia, Croatia, Germany, Austria, and Italy. Before making this trip, however, I had taken AP Art History in my sophomore year of high school, and spent the year learning about various historical pieces of art and architecture, my favorite of which being The Florence Cathedral, pictured above, and its incredible dome completed by Filippo Brunelleschi.

Though the dome and the cathedral are beautiful on their own, it’s the story behind the dome’s construction that makes this my favorite piece. Though construction on the cathedral began in 1296, the dome covering wasn’t completed until 1436. When the cathedral was first being built, the ambitious architects designed it to compete with other marvelous cathedrals in Milan and Rome. What better way to do this than by creating the largest dome ever built with a diameter of almost 150 feet. No dome of this size had ever been built before, and the Florentines insisted that the dome be freestanding, despite not knowing how this feat could be accomplished. So, for more than 100 years, the dome was unfinished.

Enter Filippo Brunelleschi. He asserted that he could complete the dome using a novel herringbone bricklaying pattern, which can still be seen inside the structure. This pattern allowed the bricks to be arranged without causing the dome to collapse during its construction, which was a problem faced by all others who attempted to close the dome.

I bring this up to introduce the idea that seemingly unattainable tasks, with new ideas and hard work (and 100 years of thinking) can still be achieved. The same can be said of any idea or goal in life.

My Impossible List

One of my favorite life advice/college guidance “influencers” is YouTuber/podcaster Thomas Frank. He talks about a lot of different topics on his many platforms, but one of my favorite videos of his is about his Impossible List, an idea he got from Joel Runyon, who made the first Impossible List. These lists are like the massive Il Duomo: tasks that you want to achieve that seem impossible but are, eventually, attainable.

Starting 2021 and graduating college, I want to be more clear about the goals and aspirations I have for the future. In making this Impossible List, I hope to remind myself to set goals, no matter how outlandish they may seem, and put in the effort needed to achieve them. I also believe that publishing this list will hold me more accountable to these goals, and, depending on the interests of my millions of readers (ha.) could give me some friends to embark on these journeys together. (Even today, my roommate reached out to me about volunteering monthly at the homeless shelter, so get ready for that box to be ticked!)

If you want to read my Impossible List, you can find it here. I plan to update it regularly, but I also want to encourage readers to reflect on their own goals and what they might want achieve this year.

Not to be the person that drops a Disney quote but:

It’s kind of fun to do the impossible.

Walt Disney

Goals I have for 2021

2020 has been an awful year for a lot of people, myself included, and while I don’t expect the world to suddenly right itself at midnight January 1st EST, I do have hopes that things will improve in the new year.

Above everything else, this year has taught me that there are always going to be aspects of my life that remain out of my control. I can’t control the mass spread of a virus, nor whether the people in my life will take the precautionary measures to slow the spread of that virus seriously. I can’t control whether or not the people in my life that I love and care about will always be able to include me in theirs. And I can’t control the toilet paper stock at my local grocery store.

What I can control, however, are my own actions and my attitudes towards those of others. So, with this in mind, I have created a list of goals in my power as I attempt to make my 2021 the best fresh start I can imagine.

  1. Read More

I know…boring. I expect this to be on most people’s resolution list for the new year – and right it should be! (or ‘write’ it should be *ba dum tsss*). Books are fantastic wealths of information and fantastical escapes from the world, and there’s a lot of evidence to suggest that reading more can also improve brain connectivity, increase comprehension, lower blood pressure and reduce stress (healthline, 2019).

Though finding the time to read has been difficult for me in the past, this year I plan to valiantly fight the urge to turn to jelly I usually get when I try to think about reading for pleasure after flipping through pages upon pages of papers for class.

My (I think modest goal) is to read 26 books: one every two weeks. While I don’t have them all planned out, I do have a shortlist of titles I want to make the list:

  • The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk
  • Spillover: Animal Infections and the Next Human Pandemic by David Quammen
  • The Viral Storm by Nathan Wolfe
  • The Great Influenza by John Berry
  • A Game of Thrones by George R. R. Martin
  • Ready Player Two by Ernest Cline

2. Graduate Undergrad

Okay, maybe this should’ve been number one on the list. It’s not a surprising resolution; I expect to be able to graduate in May 2021. I’ll be taking between 13 and 16 credits next semester, depending on my interest and availability in one elective, but I am genuinely motivated to absorb all I can from the other classes I plan to take.

I really can’t believe my four years of undergrad at Georgetown are almost over. I am so grateful for all the amazing people I’ve met and for all the fascinating classes I’ve taken (Shoutout to Shakespeare with Professor Michael Collins, Language and Society with Professor Grace Buker, and Global Health History with Professor Timothy Newfield).

With this last semester, yes, I still want to push myself to succeed and to do my best, but I also want to take the time to cherish the last semester I have with some of the people I really love on campus.

To quote Ferris Beuller: “Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.”

3. Better Myself

This is a kind of vague resolution because I mean a lot of things with it. This last month, I’ve taken a lot of time to focus on myself and access my goals, something I also find inherent in my approach to the end of my undergraduate studies. It’s the end of an era: a time to adjust my priorities and redefine my lifestyle as I enter the “real world”. This is the time for me to put myself first and take actionable steps towards realizing the future I want.

I want to establish myself as a rising professional – get a job and make real-world contributions to the health and safety of those around me. I want to continue to learn outside of university – find things that interest me, areas to expand and learn about, creative paths to pursue. I want to become a healthier person, prioritizing my physical and mental health to ensure that I am able to give my all to others when needed. This also means recognizing when I am exhausted or draining myself, and ensuring that I inject some element of fun into everything I do (Cue Mary Poppins: “In every job that must be done…”). I want to make sure that I enjoy my life, while finding success and I think the trick to happiness and any endeavor is to find the appropriate balance between the two.

In addition to these kind of capitalist “do better to work better” goals, which I unfortunately feel the need to ascribe to as a member of American society, I also want to find out what being a better person on an emotional sense means to me. I think that I’ve gotten better at standing up for myself and my needs and boundaries in recent years, but I plan to continue that journey, examining what healthy friendships and relationships mean to me and what I, as an individual, am seeking from those connections and how I can be a better friend and relative to those around me. I’m not really sure what those answers are, but I look forward to deep, emotional conversations with the people who are important in my life to help me in pursuit of that goal.

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